KronoZ
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Post by KronoZ on May 31, 2010 12:52:31 GMT -5
This past weekend has been very exciting for everyone I'm sure, and me especially. But with excitement, comes mistakes. This past friday I had sex with my Ex's best friend. Mind you, I don't remember any of this at all. I had completely blacked out, not that it is an excuse. The point this is a big deal is because I've been trying to come to good terms with my ex, and eventually work things out. I really love her, and I feel as though the damage done is unrepairable. Does anyone have any advice?
Side Note: As far as I'm aware, she has no idea any that any of this happened.
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Post by Prince Eric on May 31, 2010 13:06:02 GMT -5
I know this isn't the answer you were looking for but in order to move forward I really think you must tell her. Think of it like this. You have shattered a glass mirror with her already, so you must break off all the other shards as well (That means since you guys are already separated just lay out ALL YOUR MISTAKES on the table, confess to EVERYTHING just get passed all the bad stuff) Once you broke all the glass off the mirror IF your relationship is strong enough and she wants to still work it out then now it is time to pick all the pieces up and fix it... (That means after you admitted to everything and she admitted to everything, ask her for forgiveness, give her some time to heal... Try and work it out... Just do little things to make it better, work your charm and show her how much you love her slowly but surely) IF your relationship was strong enough to last this period then I think it is time to ask her back out again and put the past behind you and look forward (The mirror is all fixed now, you've placed every broken piece in its place, but although you can still see the cracks, that just represents what you have over come.)
Sorry for the strange analogy =/ That is just how I see it. Hope I helped.
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Post by Admin on May 31, 2010 20:03:21 GMT -5
Trust is like a mirror you can fix it if its broke but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection.
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Post by SUHPREEM on May 31, 2010 21:41:05 GMT -5
^ Shaking my head.
If you love her, you'd tell her anything...just don't expect anything nice coming from her mouth; expect either a lot of crying, screaming or both.
I never knew you were like that, Connor. I see you!
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Post by < Nickjaro > on Jun 1, 2010 17:23:11 GMT -5
Trust is like a mirror you can fix it if its broke but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection. ^^ Davie.. LOL Ok Connor, I think I agree with Eric, tell her the truth. If you still love each other after this, then you are a good couple. But remember the trust is one of the hardest things to recover. So if you really love her, and you try it again, dont be unfaithful and be a gentleman with her, ignore the other bitches that will try to break you guys up.
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Post by Admin on Jun 1, 2010 17:28:07 GMT -5
I AM SORRY, BUT AM I THE ONLY PERSON WHO IS SHOCKED BY THIS BEHAVIOR?
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Post by CLAYBAYBAY on Jun 1, 2010 17:36:03 GMT -5
No you aren't David lol I am shocked at this coming from Connor as well.
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Post by SUHPREEM on Jun 4, 2010 0:26:06 GMT -5
Where the fuck is Connor?
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Post by moon on Jun 4, 2010 14:58:56 GMT -5
How am I not shocked ..
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Post by BECKY BROOKLYN on Jun 4, 2010 18:51:01 GMT -5
I AM SORRY, BUT AM I THE ONLY PERSON WHO IS SHOCKED BY THIS BEHAVIOR?
Lol, no I'm shocked too. The way he represents, it doesnt seem like he would do that. but LOL dayumm.
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